7w8 Vs 8w7 Enneagrams (A 3 Point Guide)

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This article will highlight the differences between the 7w8 and 8w7 enneagram types by discussing their fears and desires, workplace behaviours, relationship traits and strengths. Furthermore, the article will also introduce the two enneagram types to the audience.

7w8 Vs 8w7: The Enneagram Types & Differences

The main difference between the 7w8 and 8w7 enneagram is that the 7w8 enneagram is more towards the fun side where they enjoy the company of others, like to explore and do not want to miss out on any opportunities. The 8w7 enneagram is on the more serious side where they prefer to think in a practical way and want to make sure they remain responsible in their dealings.

The main differences be

tween the 7w8 and 8w7 enneagrams are in the following areas:

  • The Workplace
  • Relationships
  • Strengths
  • Desires & Fears

We will explain how they differ from each other in the above highlighted areas. However, before we do that, we will introduce both of them to the readers.

The 7w8 Enneagram: The Opportunist

The 7w8 enneagram that is also known as the ‘Opportunist’ is one that is mostly made up of traits from the type 7 enneagram but shares some traits with the type 8 enneagram too. Compared to most type 7 enneagrams, these individuals are more committed and hard working in their work going the extra mile. They like to put work first and ensure they have completed their tasks or assignments. This is powered by the innate determination they have to get done with whatever they have promised to get done. The 7w8 enneagram is also more tough in their behavior and a bit protective – they like to remain composed.

At the same time they are very enthusiastic individuals. They like to be energetic in whatever they do rather than take a sluggish or half hearted approach in what they do. They are keen to get things done and take an interest in whatever is on their schedule that needs attention.

Like other enneagrams, these ones also like to seek new opportunities and make the best out of them. They are gratification seekers and don’t want to miss out any experiences that they come across. At the same time, they have a very optimistic attitude about life and like to be happy! 

They have an extroverted trait to them as well. The type 7w8 enneagram is fond of being around other people and loves to interact, socialize and have fun. They like to attend public events or gatherings where they can meet new people, relax and just enjoy the moment and live in it. Hence, these people are great to call to parties or gatherings because they keep things alive and going and don’t let anyone feel left out or bored – they are the life of the party!

It is obvious that one fear these enneagrams have is missing out on the fun going around them. Hence they may fall into a dilemma when it comes to commitments or letting go and just having fun. However, their personality tends to pull them more towards their commitments and hence they are able to pull through and show how reliable they are – making the right choices at the right time matters.

8w7 Enneagrams – Nonconformists

The 8w7 enneagram type shares most of its traits with the 8 type enneagram but also has some traits from the wing 7 too. This enneagram is generally comfortable with conflicts that they may face and this is because they are confident, independent and quite ambitious! They persevere in their path and do not let others get in the way. Furthermore, they may be quiet but when the time comes they will speak up and defend their own stance or those of others. 

Although they wander much around in their mind, these enneagram types are also great at handling people and taking practical steps. They make the right decisions and prefer to do so on their own without much interference. Apart from thinking clearly and logically, they are creative and like to test innovative ideas! They go the extra mile when it comes to establishing goals or milestones that they want to achieve. They are big dreamers and quite idealistic in their vision. They want to create a world or society where people can go big or go home. They want to help others achieve their own dreams by ensuring no one creates hurdles for them.

This enneagram type, however, is afraid of losing their own autonomy and maybe this is why they are so independent because they want to assure themselves that they can handle most matters on their own. At the same time, these individuals also struggle when it comes to being emotionally honest or vulnerable. They will try to ignore their own emotions or what they feel because they are either too afraid of facing them or just want to focus on what is going on in the external world. They won’t even let anyone too close as they do not want to become emotionally or mentally vulnerable.

This enneagram type has however developed great people skills and can become effective and inspirational leaders. They are open when it comes to sharing their thoughts and opinions about certain matters with others – they do not care about what others will think. They are comfortable creating connections with others and can easily do so.

However, this enneagram does have some weaknesses. They will have difficulty in following instructions from authority figures and they are impatient at times. They may overindulge in themselves or their work and may become insensitive to the feelings of others. 

7w8 Vs 8w7 Enneagrams: How Are They Different?

The 7w8 and 8w7 enneagram behave differently in the following areas:

  • The Workplace
  • Relationships
  • Strengths
  • Desires & Fears

In this article, we will comment on the differences between the 7w8 and 8w7 enneagram with regards to the following areas:

Strengths

As this enneagram has more control over their emotions, the 7w8 type can remain calm in tense situations. They are better at asserting themselves and have a natural charisma and confidence about them! This personality type is more likely to stay positive and has high energy levels that help it get things done!

The 8w7 enneagram is one that likes to dream big and in an idealistic manner where they can create the perfect world for themselves and others. They are in the habit of advocating for the rights of others hence they are quite brave and caring as well although they may not really show it. They are good leaders who are optimistic and make great plans – they also connect well with others. Furthermore, the 8w7 enneagram has no issue opening up about what they think or feel.

Workplace Practices

This enneagram likes to be at the center of things hence they do not want to miss out on anything happening at the workplace. Accomplishing goals is very rewarding and they like to have fun or celebrate by throwing a party at the office! For the 7w8 enneagram type, relationships with coworkers matter a lot because they derive their energy and motivation from here. 

When it comes to work, the 8w7 enneagram is happy when they can work in teams and get the chance to actually take a break from work at their own ease. This enneagram type also likes to be involved in important things and at the front too! They also like to exercise or engage in activities when they feel overburdened due to work.

Relationships

When it comes to handling tough situations in a relationship, the 7w8 can handle it but they lack some traits which make things easier in relationships – especially the intimate ones. They do not let their emotions flow so easily and may become distant. Also, they are heavily focused on their career and may not be able to give too much time to their special one!

This enneagram type is more clear in their thinking and can look at things for what they are. They do not give too much weightage to their emotions and this allows them to have a neutral and objective stance which matches that of their partner. They can easily express their thoughts and hence quickly get to the root cause of the issue and communicate it to their partner.

Furthermore, another trait that helps them settle down with their partner is forming connections. Their partner appreciates it when others take time out to get to know them!

Desires & Fears

Although they want to be committed and come out as reliable people others can depend on because they ensure they meet tasks, the 7w8 enneagram is scared of missing out on new experiences. They do not want to be deprived of what life has to offer them and this puts them in a difficult spot. Why? They have a number of commitments and work tasks to meet so it is not always possible to let go of things and do what they want when they want to.

This fear is accompanied by the one that they may miss out because of their work schedules. They do not want to be controlled by what they are doing and wish to have flexible schedules that allow them to organize things from time to time so they can incorporate new things into their schedule and hence not miss out on anything they want to pursue.

These guys just want to be happy and content. They want to be assured that they have not missed out on anything that they wanted to try. Being happy is an integral part of their peace and they do usually attain this by surrounding themselves with people that they get along with, like or are new and can thus get to learn more about them. They like to travel around the world and be part of new cultural or social experiences and see how things are different in other parts of the world.

The type 7w8 enneagram also likes to attend parties. It gives them a chance to relax and meet new people and just socialize and hence get lost in the moment. 

The 8w7 enneagram type fears being controlled and manipulated by others. They are scared they will become helpless or weak to the extent that others will tell them what to do and how to do it – something which is against their wishes or desires. They want to be able to control how they do things.

The Non-conformist desires to remain in control of their own life. They realize that this can only be achieved if they work hard and become independent. This desire is so strong and deep that they desire it for others too hence they are oftentimes advocates for others too. They want to be able to be free and not under the influence of others.

Conclusion

This article took a deep dive into the differences between the 8w7 and 7w8 enneagram in some areas: strengths, traits, work, relationships, and fears and desires.

References

https://www.crystalknows.com/enneagram/type-7/wing-8

https://www.crystalknows.com/enneagram/type-8/wing-7

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