This article will take a look at what ‘granny incest’ basically entails and why this occurs. Furthermore, the topic will take a look at what taboo relationships are and also highlight some. The article will also highlight any medical issues that may result from such relationships and why they are looked down upon in society. Lastly, the article will quote some real life granny incest stories that are quite popular on the internet.
What Is Granny Incest?
The term granny incest literally means having sexual intercourse with your paternal or maternal grandmother. Although the term implies that the woman must be related to you by blood, it also includes a grandmother who may not be really related to you by blood but someone your paternal or maternal grandfather married. Hence, it is anyone who is married or was married to your mother or father’ dad.
Granny incest is when a person engages in a sexual relationship with their grandmother for pleasure purposes. Other purposes can also be included such as being in love with them, exploring new things or using her as a means to have sex especially if you have been unsuccessful elsewhere. Sometimes people engage in this relationship just for entertainment purposes. In some cases, the grandmother may be the one who initiates such a relationship.
In almost all cases, such relationships are secret and unknown to others. They take place when no one is around and are short or long term affairs that are mutually pursued but usually focus on the physical aspect of the relationship. Other important aspects of relationships such as dating, living together or engaging in a romantic relation may not be included.
Why Do People Engage In Incestual Relationships?
Here are some reasons why someone would commit incest with their grandmother:
- For pleasure purposes
- Out of curiosity
- To experience sex
- Out of boredom
- To raise self esteem – getting laid helps!
- Grandma abuse
- Being in love with her
- Sexual frustration – Nowhere to go!
Real Life Grandma Incest Stories
Here is a real life story where a person had sex with their grandmother!
In 2001, a 25-year-old Indian named Narayan Biswas married his 80-year-old grandmother in a traditional Hindu marriage ceremony. He said he married his grandmother to take care of her in a much better way. “I helped bring him up with my own hands and now he looks after me. He is a good husband and ensures I get my meals on time,” the elated granny told the local news reporters. Even though incest marriage is illegal according to India’s Hindu Marriage Act, law enforcement authorities decided not take action against the couple. However, There is no confirmation whether a physical relationship was present between the two.
Taboo Relationships – What Are They?
Taboo relationships are relationships that are considered inappropriate by society. This means that such relationships go against the norms and values of the society a person lives in whether or not there is a good enough reason to support such a thing.
Taboo relationships may involve any type of relationship where someone may be having an affair with a divorced person or simply dating their own teacher from high school. The relationship is taboo based on which society it comes from. Thus, a relationship may be considered taboo in one society but not taboo in another.
A good example would be that of cousin marriages. In western countries such as the UK and the United States, cousin marriages are considered taboo to the extent that most people are disgusted by the mention of it! However, in eastern countries this is a common practice where cousins often get married to each other.
A taboo connection might range from incest to a single person having an affair with a divorced person; as long as it is not permitted in that culture, it is termed a taboo relationship.
Historically, taboo relationships have been defined as a love that defies culturally imposed behavioral norms by transforming into a “hidden love” that the rest of the world should be unaware of.
However, many of the taboo relationships of the past are no longer taboo now.
In contrast, others, such as interracial dating in America, are not formally outlawed but can be tacitly repressed further as Western society progresses along a socially libertine path.
The article will take a look at some examples of taboo relationships!
Types of Taboo Relationships – 9 Examples
Here are the relationships that are considered taboo:
- Your Grandmother
- The Neighbor Next Door
- A Work Colleague
- Someone From Another Religion
- Your Ex’s Sibling
- Your Friend’s Sibling
- Doctor Patient Relationship
- Teacher Student Relationship
- A Married Person
Why Do People Engage In Taboo Relationships
In this section we will take a look at why people engage in taboo relationships!
The first reason why people may engage in taboo relationships is because that is how they truly are; for example they may be attracted to the same gender. They may be a man but they actually feel like a woman or they may be a woman but they do not get that entire feminine feeling other women experience. As a society and possibly as a species, we are comfortable with things being in black and white; if we need a response then we need it in either a ‘Yes’ or ‘No – anything in between confuses us. If we want to know who is right we do not want to get into the complexities or accept the fact that both sides in a fight may actually be right especially if they are looking at things from their own angle.
Similarly, if we are assigned a female gender at birth then we expect that this specific person will feel like a woman their entire life. However, keeping in mind how complex this world is, it should not be surprising if someone feels this way and decides to acknowledge it.
A Defense Mechanism
Just as the world is complex, so is our body and hence we sometimes engage in very odd or strange behaviours to deal with stress or anxiety. We may become an entirely different person compared to who we were before!
In this case, it is possible someone may identify as a woman even though they are a man because they are unable to deal with the stresses of being a man in their culture, society or nation. They may be disgusted by what men or women in their society do and hence they will associate with the opposite gender.
Thus, identifying as a demiwoman or demiman can also be a defense mechanism that has deeper reasons rather than just feeling a certain way.
Sometimes we have bad experiences with people of the other gender and because society has put so many restrictions on us we find ways to evade our problems and create a better world for our own selves. Many times, men and women have a hard time in relationships with the other gender; they may be ghosted, cheated on or divorced despite being a good partner.
The blow they receive from such an experience may be so devastating that they either begin to hate the other gender or their own gender; afterall, in such situations you need to blame someone because this is human nature. Thus, they may decide to identify as a new gender to avoid being with people of a certain gender or get the chance to be with people that are associated with the gender this specific person was previously associated with.
In some cases, people want to experience something new that may hold something better for them hence they engage in taboo relationships. This may not be because they are rebellious but they sincerely believe that they will have a better life after such bad experiences. So they may decide to be with someone who is way older than them or of a different religion or society in the hope that things will be better this time.
A Mental Disorder
In the past, feeling something like this was considered a mental disorder despite the fact that what people felt may have definitely been genuine. Sometimes we become the prey of serious mental conditions that affect how we behave or think. In some cases, people may begin hearing or seeing things that do not exist. In serious cases people have even begun speaking different languages. In other cases they may have adopted various personalities at the same time or an entirely different one. Although there is nothing wrong with such behaviours if they were naturally occurring, they are not appropriate because they are the result of a mental disorder. So for example, there is nothing wrong with speaking a different language but if it occurs because of a mental disorder then there is an issue.
Similarly, one effect that a mental disorder may have on our body and mind is that we do not feel like we used to before in terms of the gender we are usually associated with.
In some cases, childhood abuse or lack of parental affection may result in us engaging in incestual or other taboo relationships
This article took a look at what granny incest is and explained why people engaged in it. The article also looked at other taboo relationships and why people may engage in such relations. Finally, the article also gave an example of a real life story where someone engaged in sexual relations with their grandmother.